The stories you hear become the stories you believe.
The stories you believe influence the stories you create.
The stories you create shape the way you live, how you love and how you lead.
Are the stories you believe creating the life you want to be living?
Are the stories you create giving you the retionships you want to experience?
Are the stories you live helping you lead in ways that are rooted in liberation?
Write & align with the story you want to live.
STACI JORDAN SHELTON | ALIGNED LEADERSHIP + LIVING
Let's talk about life, relating and leadership...
DON'T JUST DRAW WHAT YOU WANT AND NEED - KEEP IT.
We talk a lot about DRAWING things:
Drawing people into relationships.
Drawing people into organizations.
Drawing people into communities.
We love to talk about drawing people and things.
We don't love to talk about the things that make them fall apart or leave.
We ask people to bring their brilliance but tell them to leave the rest of their culture, hearts and and loves behind.
We ask people to be authentic, while requiring their silence or smallness to be accepted or safe.
We ask people to be vulnerable, when we don't have the skills, willingness or ability to hold safe space for vulnerability or complexity.
We talk about what we value, and while violence never shows up on the list of values we espouse or aspire to, we employ it daily in our interactions and policies.
And we wonder why people leave or opt out.
We dream and plan for things, but don't think about creating the conditions that will ensure sustainability and that they thrive.
Nothing thrives in a space that isn't supportive, safe and treats it as valued and sacred.
When people aren't supported, safe treated as sacred, energy is diverted to protection and survival, instead of creativity and thriving.
Things don't manifest as easily when you are out of alignment.
And what stories are you aligning with?
The truth is that experiences, cultural conditioning, pain, grief and trauma make their way into every single relationship - professional and otherwise. When these things remain unchecked, they result in things like toxic workplaces, controlling and abusive behavior and dysfunctional organizations.
Which is why you can't keep ignoring them.
They shape your stories and how you live, love and lead.
They keep you tripping and reacting from triggers and fears instead of intentionally responding and creating with the desired outcomes in mind.
They get in the way of having a healthy relationship with yourself, the people you love and even your goals and dreams.
The good news is that just like you were programmed into beliefs, behaviors and binaries that don't serve you and that impact your ability to succeed and soar - you can unlearn them. You can learn practices of leadership and relating that are rooted in liberation and love, not violence and oppression.
Live, love, create and lead with integrity, compassion, authentic power and truth.
That is how you change your life.
That is how you change how you lead.
That is how you change the world.
Let's get to it.
I'M STACI JORDAN SHELTON
I'm a leadership and performance consultant with over 25 years experience coaching, training and mentoring leaders to get amazing results.
I work with leaders, creatives, healers and change agents get free from the beliefs, behaviors and binaries that keep you stuck, playing small, and impacting how you live, love and lead.
Unlearn programming and models of relating and leadership that are build on the principles of oppression and move toward practices of love, living and leading rooted in liberation, power, and truth.
I work with individuals, groups and organizations.
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