You deserve a love that fills you.
You're tired of settling for love, relationships and friendships that don't nourish you.
It's time to get free from the things that keep you chasing, choosing and continuing in relationships that don't serve you.
To do that begins with the truth.
There are so many myths about love.
Too many of the models of what "love" is are actually self abandonment and sacrifice that are neither healthy or sustainable.
Love doesn't need you to place your dreams on hold.
Love doesn't take every bit of your life force and energy and leave you with nothing.
Love doesn't need to control, diminish or harm to prove your devotion.
“Love” doesn’t require you to abuse yourself to prove how loyal, dedicated, enamored or committed you are.
Love leaves you whole, healed and satisfied.
Having that kind of love starts with divesting from the myths about hove. It means understanding triggers and removing yourself from relationships with people who need you to damage, debase or deny yourself to make them feel loved, important or powerful. That means getting clear, understanding your needs and aligning everything
To have keep that kind of love, the work is choosing, embodying and engaging in that kind of love and loving constantly.
Most people aren't taught to love or navigate that way.
And that's why I created Love + Longing.
You'll learn and know which beliefs are in the way and unlearn the binaries and behaviors that keep you in conflict and not getting what you need.
You'll learn how to navigate conflict, which is a part of being human without imploding relationships.
You'll get clear about what you need to cultivate healthy relationship with yourself and align your mind, mouth and movements with getting and keeping the love you need.
Learn how to cultivate love that is safe, sacred, supportive - and that sustains and satisfies - no matter what the relationship.
Staci Jordan Shelton
I'm a performance consultant and coach with over 25 year experience coaching, training and mentoring leaders and change agents close performance and profit gaps and get amazing results.
I'm on a mission to help healers, leaders and creatives get free from the beliefs, binaries and behaviors that impact how they live, love and lead - and ultimately, the outcomes they create or fail to create.
If you're ready to heal and be free - let's get to work.
Give me a month and I'm going to shift our perspective, experience and expectations about navigating relationships.
You'll know what love and healthy relationship means to and for you and what behaviors support or derail productive relationships
You'll learn practices for managing our boundaries and navigating conflict.
You'll learn solid strategies to stop living a life that is dictated by triggers and learn how to identify and disrupt harmful patterns.
You'll unlearn oppressive and toxic ways of relating to yourself and others and learn how to live, love and your life from a praxis of liberation - not oppression, fear or control.
You'll also walk away with proven practices to apply to your life in real time to assess the real problems, navigate internal and external conflicts with integrity and ease, connect to possibility and create the kind of love and relationships you want to experience.
All you need is a journal, a way to connect online, a willing heart and an open mind.
For a full month I'll be your guide in my private online community to do this Love + Longing work.
You'll get 7 separate video lessons to explore along with journaling prompts in the form of coaching questions for exploration and that help you gain clarity on exactly what you need to shift so that you can create what you want to experience.
This work is designed intentionally - to uncover the programming that creates your current experience, practices
You'll also have a private online community to PROCESS, discuss and explore with other people doing the work, if that is important to you. Or, you can do in the privacy and sacred space of your own private journal and join me for the live check ins and the group calls.
When you join you get:
Me as a coach, mentor and guide in a private online group for a month as you navigate and do the work.
Prompts, exercises and practices designed to help you shift from where you are to where you want to be and have satisfying, whole relationships.
Live weekly check-in and coaching Q&A ions and discussions.
LOVE + LONGING STRUCTURE
7 Week virtual group intensive
Learn my ANEW framework and self coaching process to help you align and anchor the work and stay on track.
Identify the beliefs, behaviors and binaries that keep you living and reacting from triggers and fears, instead of living, leading and constantly creating the outcomes you want to create.
7 weeks of group coaching and teaching.
Private online space for safe and confidential discussions
Weekly lessons, practices and tools for getting clear and to create what you want
- Weekly group check in for support & questions
Group closing call and ceremony to commune, celebrate and create commitments for moving forward.
Single or 4 installment payment option
Investment: One payment of $1777 or 4 payments of $444.25
WORKING WITH ME WILL CHANGE THE WAY YOU LIVE, LOVE AND LEAD.
DON'T JUST TAKE IT FROM ME:
MARGO STEBBING | POET & AUTHOR
"I learn from you on the daily.
...in your workshops, the alchemy is real. You have an insane gift for creating space and asking questions. It’s deceptively simple unless a person realizes how much complexity had to be distilled in order to reach the clarity necessary to achieve that simplicity.
And you have a profound ability to speak into being the words begging to be spoken from the collective unconscious. I’ve sooooo often felt something intangible and then there in my feed you’ve spelled it out.
It’s that true art where the divine, universal, and the deeply personal intersect - and you manage to put it together in a way designed to empower and liberate.
That’s some rare magic."
AARON MCMANUS | EXECUTIVE RECRUITER
SYDNEY WILLIAMS | AUTHOR, SPEAKER AND CREATOR OF HIKING MY FEELINGS™
"The Sydney you see here today has been monumentally shifted and redirected thanks to you. Unraveling saved my life and helped me understand my process. You are one of the brightest lights I've ever had the pleasure of being in community with and honestly, there are days when I ask myself "what would Staci do?" That question helps me move through the hard shit with integrity. And that, ultimately, is all I can ask of myself."
"You were a major midwife to me as I birthed through the arrested development of my own identity, and helped me so much to recognize my own veiled corners of unseeing my own conditioning of whiteness as a multi-racial woman. You have been so generous and also fierce. I just happened to read this poem after you posed this question and I thought of you: the wholeness of you.
Also- you have a gift to make such penetrating analysis, and I know this has been a gift to so many of us."
"You've challenged me to stop thinking small and given me the hope that I can live my values and serve the people on a larger scale, while also making sure the bills are paid"
TONY RELLA | MA, LMHC